100 Reasons Why I Love You: Ideas for Your Girlfriend or Wife

Ask any guy to list reasons he loves his girlfriend or wife and he will freeze after three. The love is real, the words just do not show up on demand. Here are 100 reasons you can borrow, split into sections. Pick the ones that sound like her and add your own.

10 Reasons I Love You: For Her
Ten reasons you love her, illustrated with the two of you. Add names, 2 photos and a message.
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Reasons about who she is

1. You are kind to people who can do nothing for you.
2. You are smarter than you give yourself credit for.
3. You are brave in ways you do not even notice.
4. You stay calm when I panic.
5. You make friends wherever you go.
6. You are honest, even when it is hard.
7. You have a quiet strength.
8. You are generous with your time.
9. You never give up on people you love.
10. You are one of the most real people I know.
11. You work harder than you admit.
12. You care about the small things.
13. You say sorry when you are wrong.
14. You stand up for what you believe.
15. You are patient with me.
16. You can be silly and serious in the same hour.
17. You are good with people and with kids.
18. You listen, really listen.
19. You know what you want.
20. You are your own person.

Reasons about how you make me feel

21. You complete me.
22. You have my back, always.
23. You let me be myself.
24. You make me laugh when I am upset.
25. You love me even when I am mad.
26. I feel at home when I am with you.
27. You make me want to be a better man.
28. I feel safe telling you anything.
29. You believe in me when I do not.
30. You celebrate my wins as if they were yours.
31. You make hard days lighter.
32. You make silence feel comfortable.
33. You make me feel understood.
34. You are my favourite person to talk to.
35. I can be quiet or loud around you and it is fine.
36. You make me feel like enough.
37. You are my calm.
38. You are my cheerleader.
39. You make me feel brave.
40. You make me feel loved.

Reasons about the little things

41. Your laugh.
42. The way you scrunch your nose.
43. How you hum when you cook.
44. Your messy hair on a Sunday morning.
45. The way you steal my hoodie.
46. How you text me random memes.
47. The way you say my name.
48. Your terrible singing, which I secretly love.
49. How you get excited about small things.
50. The face you make when you taste something good.
51. How you remember details I forgot I told you.
52. The way you hold my hand without thinking.
53. Your habit of finishing my fries.
54. How you call me when something good happens.
55. The way you fall asleep during movies.
56. How you dance when you think no one is looking.
57. Your handwriting.
58. How you smell like home.
59. The way your eyes light up when you talk about things you love.
60. How you wait for me before eating.

Reasons about us

61. We laugh at the same stupid things.
62. We respect each other's interests.
63. We can disagree and still be okay.
64. We have our own inside jokes.
65. You get along with my people.
66. You take me places I would never go alone.
67. You keep your playful side alive.
68. We plan trips we may never take, and still enjoy planning them.
69. We have built our own little world.
70. We are a team.
71. We grow together.
72. We can do nothing and still have a great day.
73. You fit into my family so easily.
74. You are my best friend.
75. We forgive each other quickly.
76. We are better together than apart.
77. You push me to try new things.
78. We never run out of things to talk about.
79. You know me better than anyone.
80. I look forward to every plan that has you in it.

Reasons about the future

81. I want to grow old with you.
82. I want to cook for you for years.
83. I want to be there for your big days and your quiet ones.
84. I want to travel with you, everywhere.
85. I want to keep learning you.
86. I want to build a home with you.
87. I want to see who you become.
88. I want you at every table I sit at.
89. I want to keep making you laugh.
90. I want to say thank you every day, and mean it.

A few more, just because

91. You are good at being you.
92. You are good at being mine.
93. You make a great cup of chai.
94. You are beautiful, inside and out.
95. You are good for me.
96. You are the first person I tell good news.
97. You are the last person I want to say goodnight to.
98. You are my favourite hello.
99. You are my hardest goodbye.
100. You are simply you, and that is the reason.

How to use these

• Pick ten. A short list of ten that sound like her is stronger than a long list she skims.
• Add one memory to each. "You make me laugh" becomes "you made me laugh at that wedding when I was about to lose it".
• Write them somewhere she will keep them. A card, a note in her bag, or a book.

Turn ten of these into a keepsake

Many of the reasons above are the same ones guys choose for our book. Our 10 Reasons I Love You book for her lets you choose ten, add your names and 2 photos, and make an illustrated book with the two of you in it. There is also a version for him.

Questions people ask

How do I choose reasons that sound real?

Pick the ones you could say out loud without cringing, then add a real memory to each.

How many reasons should I give her?

Ten is a great number. It is long enough to feel generous and short enough that she will read every one.

Can I use these for a boyfriend or husband?

Yes. Change the pronouns and keep the ones that fit him.

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